Move to France Retreat
Transforming French Fantasies into Your New Reality
Chateau de Borie, Agen, France
Saturday, October 4 - Saturday, October 11, 2025
Limited to 8-12 participants
Imagine yourself stepping into the enchanting world of Chateau de Borie, a sanctuary nestled in the heart of southwest France where dreams of French living become reality. More than just a retreat, this is your gateway to transforming your vision of life in France from a distant fantasy to a tangible, achievable journey.
Set against the backdrop of a stunning chateau, our Move to France Retreat 2025 is designed to do more than inform—it's crafted to inspire. Here, you'll find a supportive environment that nurtures your aspirations, provides critical insights, and connects you with a community of like-minded individuals ready to embrace the French way of life.
Whether you're dreaming of retirement, seeking a creative escape, or planning a permanent move, this retreat offers a comprehensive roadmap. From visa processes and real estate insights to cultural immersion and language nuances, we've curated an experience that addresses every aspect of your French adventure.
Topics to Be Covered
Visas: Types, Process, Timing, Realities Understanding the visa process is crucial for anyone considering a move to France. We'll demystify the different types of visas, their application processes, timing, and the realities you may face, equipping you with the knowledge to navigate this critical step with confidence.
Real Estate: Buying and Selling in France Learn about the French real estate market, covering the buying and selling processes, transfer taxes, and energy ratings, especially regarding rentability. We'll discuss the seasonality of certain regions and villages, helping you make informed decisions about property investment.
Psychological, Social, and Language Realities "Getting past all the things you thought you knew about the French people and the immigrant experience." This session will be a candid discussion about integrating into French society, overcoming language barriers, and adjusting to the cultural nuances of your new home.
Financial Matters: Taxes, Moving Money, Bank Accounts Gain insights into the financial aspects of moving to France, including tax obligations, transferring money, and setting up bank accounts. This session aims to clarify the financial landscape and help you manage your finances efficiently in your new country.
Construction Realities Drawing from personal experience, this session will cover the realities of property renovation and construction in France. From navigating the bureaucratic processes to understanding local construction norms, you'll gain practical insights and tips.
Driving and Permits Discover the ins and outs of driving in France, including how to obtain a French driving permit and the nuances of French driving regulations. This session will also cover the potential challenges and how to overcome them, including tips for those who might need to change their state of residency before moving.
The French Day/Year An exploration of the French calendar, including Sunday closures, holidays, summer vacations, and lunch hours. Understanding these cultural foundations will help you adjust your patterns and fully enjoy life in France.
Leisure and Society in France A look at the importance of leisure time in French life, town festivals, parks, and nature. This session will highlight the value placed on social and leisure activities and how they form an integral part of French culture.
10 Things I Wish I’d Known A playful and interactive session where we share anecdotes and insights about moving to France. With input from others, this session will synthesize what you've learned over the week and provide a fun, informal way to reflect on your future in France.
French Health Care Discover why French healthcare is highly regarded worldwide. We’ll cover PUMA, Mutuelles, Doctolib, preventative care, and emergency services, ensuring you understand how to access and benefit from the French healthcare system.
Step Into Your Dreams
This is your chance to embrace the extraordinary. Just as I found the courage to pursue my vision of owning and restoring a chateau, you too can transform your dreams into reality. Join me for a week where inspiration meets action, and every moment is crafted to spark joy, courage, and possibility.
Set against the backdrop of the stunning Château de Borie, this retreat offers a perfect blend of informative sessions and delightful excursions. Each day is thoughtfully structured to give you a comprehensive understanding of what it takes to move to France while allowing you to savor the magic of this beautiful region.
Excursions
Wine Tasting Explore local vineyards and taste some of the finest wines the region has to offer, guided by expert sommeliers.
Property Visits Tour various properties to get a firsthand look at the types of homes available in the region and better understand the local real estate market and French construction practices.
Visit with Experts: Meet local experts who can provide valuable insights into French life and culture.
Brocante Tour Discover the charm of local flea markets, where you can find unique antiques and treasures.
Market/Grocery Store Tour Experience the vibrant atmosphere of local markets and grocery stores, learning about the variety of products and how to shop like a local.
Foie Gras Museum Get acquainted with a quintessential part of French culinary heritage with a visit to the Foie Gras Museum.
Castorama Visit a Castorama, the French equivalent of a home improvement store, and learn about sourcing materials and tools for any DIY projects you might undertake.
Creating Community and Lasting Connections
One of the most rewarding aspects of this retreat is the sense of camaraderie and community that naturally develops among participants. Sharing meals, stories, and experiences in the enchanting setting of Château de Borie fosters deep connections and lasting friendships. Our evening apéros and dinners are perfect opportunities to unwind, share laughter, and reflect on the day’s adventures.
Join us for the Move to France Retreat 2025 and embark on a journey of discovery, preparation, and excitement as you take steps toward making France your new home. Book your spot today and start planning your future in the enchanting Southwest of France.
Move to France 2025 - Itinerary
Day 1: Saturday, October 4
Arrival and Welcome
12:00 PM - 4:00 PM: Check-in and settle into accommodations
Charcuterie served from 12:00 PM
Pick ups at Agen train station.
5:30 PM - 6:30 PM: Welcome drinks and introductions in the garden
Short introduction from hosts about the retreat objectives and logistics for the week.
7:00 PM - 9:00 PM: Welcome dinner with local specialties
Day 2: Sunday, October 5
Psychological, Social, Cultural & Language Realities
8:00 AM - 9:00 AM: Breakfast at the chateau
9:30 AM - 11:00 PM: Excursion: Market tour and lunch cooking demo
Suggestion: Organize group shopping tasks or a scavenger hunt to make it interactive.
11:30 AM - 1:00 PM: Cooking Demo
1:00 PM - 2:00 PM: Lunch at the Chateau
3:00 PM - 4:30 PM: Session: Psychological, Social, Cultural and Language Realities
Feedback: A role-play exercise (e.g., ordering at a café or starting a conversation in French) could help participants feel more prepared.
6:30 PM - 7:30 PM: Aperitifs
7:30 PM - 9:30 PM: Dinner at the chateau
Day 3: Monday, October 6
Visas and Financial Planning
8:00 AM - 9:00 AM: Breakfast at the chateau
9:30 AM - 12:00 AM: Session: Visas – Types, Process, Timing, and Realities
Q&A to address individual questions.
12:30 AM - 1:30 PM: Lunch at the chateau
1:30 PM - 3:00 PM: Optional excursion to Castorama
3:00 PM - 4:30 PM: Session: Financial Matters – Taxes, Money Transfers, and Bank Accounts
Feedback: Provide participants with printed or digital guides summarizing key points.
6:30 PM - 7:30 PM: Sommelier: Stephan
7:30 PM - 9:30 PM: Dinner at the chateau
Day 4: Tuesday, October 7
French Real Estate and Construction
8:00 AM - 9:00 AM: Breakfast at the chateau
9:30 AM - 12:00 PM: Session: Real Estate – Buying, Selling, and Renting in France
12:00 PM - 1:00 PM: Lunch at the chateau
1:30 PM - 5:00 PM: Excursion: Property visits (part 1)
Session: Understanding French Construction Realities.
6:00 PM - 7:30 PM: Aperitifs
7:30 PM - 9:30 PM: Dinner at the chateau
Day 5: Wednesday, October 8
Exploring French Society
8:00 AM - 9:00 AM: Breakfast at the chateau
9:30 AM - 11:00 AM: Session: Leisure and Society in France
Add: Examples of specific festivals, parks, or leisure activities in nearby regions.
11:30 AM: Depart: Excursion: Chateau Chambert
12:30 PM - 3:30 PM: Winery lunch, tour and wine tasting
4:30 PM Arrive: Chateau de Borie
6:30 PM - 7:30 PM: Aperitifs
Session: Driving and Permits in France
7:30 PM - 9:30 PM: Dinner at the chateau
Day 6: Thursday, October 9
Health and Heritage
8:00 AM - 9:00 AM: Breakfast at the chateau
9:30 AM - 11:00 AM: Session: French Healthcare – Access, Benefits, and Systems
11:30 AM - 1:00 PM: Excursion: Visit the Foie Gras Museum
1:30 PM - 2:30 PM: Lunch at the chateau
3:00 PM - 4:30 PM: Session: 10 Things I Wish I’d Known About Moving to France
7:00 PM: Depart for restaurant
7:30 PM - 11:00 PM: Dinner at a Restaurant
Day 7: Friday, October 10
Final Topics and Farewell
8:00 AM - 9:00 AM: Breakfast at the chateau
9:30 AM - 11:00 AM: Session: The Magic of Leisure – Balancing Work and Play in France
11:30 AM: Depart for Excursion: Brocante tour
12:30 PM - 1:30 PM: Lunch on own
2:00 PM - 4:00 PM: Brocante Tour (Lectour?)
6:00 PM - 7:30 PM: Aperitifs
Wrap-up session: Reflections and actionable next steps
7:30 PM - 10:00 PM: Farewell dinner and themed party
Day 8: Saturday, October 11
Reflection and Departure
8:00 AM - 9:30 AM: Farewell breakfast at the chateau
9:30 AM - 11:00 AM: Check-out and goodbyes
Meet Your Hosts:
Abigail Carter
Dreamer, Creator, and Host of Chateau de Borie
Abigail Carter, the visionary behind Chateau de Borie, is a published author, artist, and website designer whose life journey has been one of transformation and resilience. Her first book, The Alchemy of Loss: A Young Widow’s Transformation, chronicles her path through grief after losing her husband, Arron, in the World Trade Center on 9/11. This powerful memoir, published in 2008, was long-listed for the B.C. Award for Canadian Non-Fiction and named one of The Globe and Mail's 100 Most Notable Books of the year. Her second book, Remember the Moon, a novel, also centered on themes of love, loss, and renewal, was released in 2014.
In 2017, after a difficult breakup, Abby returned to painting following a 30-year hiatus, rediscovering a creative outlet that became a source of healing and self-discovery. This rekindled passion ultimately led her to embrace a life of creativity and transformation.
During the pandemic, Abby found herself dreaming of a retreat center in France—a place where people could come to recharge, connect, and unlock their creative potential. In 2022, she made that dream a reality with the purchase of Chateau de Borie, a historic and enchanting property in Southwest France. A year later, she began hosting retreats at the chateau, welcoming creative-minded individuals from around the world to share in the beauty, culture, and inspiration that make life in France so extraordinary.
Abby’s retreats are a reflection of her own journey—places where obstacles are released, creativity flourishes, and dreams are brought to life.
Learn more about Abby and her work at www.abigailcarter.com.
Amy Witherbee
Amy Witherbee moved to Rennes, France in February 2022 with her husband under a passport talent/business creator visa. She is the co-founder of Sanderling Expat Advisors, a financial firm that provides independent advice to U.S. expats and to French nationals returning from the U.S. She is also an attorney and the co-owner of Revolution Capital, an independent registered investment advisor in Cambridge, Massachusetts.
In her free time, Amy enjoys writing, poor-quality guitar playing, and taking long walks in France with her border collie, Turner.
Ben Small
Director and Co-Founder, Ibanista
With a robust background encompassing 8 years in the industry, Ben spearheaded major sales desks at two renowned brokers in London. Recognising the need for a nimble and customer-centric approach, he harnessed his wealth of knowledge to establish Ibanista.
Ben envisions a future where the payments industry evolves seamlessly, and he thrives on the agility of our business to adapt swiftly to changes. Embracing innovation, he has crafted a space where premium services meet the dynamic demands of our valued private and corporate clients.
Want to contact Ben?
Mobile phone: 07 921 522 504
Email address: bensmall@ibanista.com
Tom Easdown
Tom Easdown is a qualified architect who moved to France with his family in 2019 to become Managing Director of French Plans, an architectural design and planning consultancy established in 2002. His mission is to help English speakers from around the world successfully navigate the French planning system to achieve their dream French home. With a passion for design and sustainability, Tom enjoys working with historic buildings and helping people bring their vision for their home to life.
Tom loves the opportunity his work gives him to explore areas of France he wouldn’t otherwise see (French plans cover the whole of France) and in his spare time, he and his 2 sons are actively involved in their local rugby club.
What Our Guests Are Saying
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The concept of living with total strangers for a week, in a foreign country, with only sketching as a common bond, was daunting, but boy was it worth it. The chateau is a magnificent venue, the host(s) provided us with an excellent itinerary for the pursuit of art, yet frivolous activities abounded.
Marty S.
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Abby’s welcoming kindness, the camaraderie of the other guests, the instruction were all so much fun! There were daily walks in nature, “forest bathing”! Don’t even get me started on the exquisite cuisine created by Chefs Frances and Arlette!! I could go on and on. To sum it up - run, don’t walk to Chateau Borie’s well filling retreats!
Linda T.
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I highly recommend this retreat to anyone looking to immerse themselves in their art while enjoying the beauty and tranquility of the French countryside. It was a truly magical experience, and I can't wait to return for my third retreat at the Chateau!
Shelli W.
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The Chateau feels like it’s alive - like history and culture pours through the walls and envelops you like a warm hug. Abby and her adorable little pup made the experience truly unforgettable - from the food, the delicious morning lattes, the wine, to the community of writers and lifelong friends I made there.
Hera M.
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This was my first ever non-work related retreat and this experience has made me eager to do many more of these hopefully at the chateau. It was the perfect combination of the people, the place, the food, the information we gained and the lasting memories we made! The idyllic environment of the chateau in a lovely French countryside was the perfect setting for a weekend dedicated to financial empowerment and personal growth for us ladies.
Vidya M.
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Abby's retreat attracted a group of warm and positive people – I couldn't believe how well the group meshed, and we still keep in touch today. I picked up painting again after a long break, and was inspired to keep going with it when I returned home. Truly life changing, and I can't recommend it highly enough.
Paula D.
Accommodations/Prices
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Chateau de Borie
Chateau de Borie is located in Pont-du-Casse, just a five minute drive from Agen, located between Toulouse and Bordeaux in an area renown for it’s fresh fruits and vegetables, particularly its dried prunes. The area is a little off the beaten path for many tourists, but boasts beautiful countryside, proximity to two splendid wine regions, historic “Bastide” villages and incredibly fresh local food.
Agen and environs
The town of Agen is equidistant between Toulouse and Bordeaux and boasts a TGV train station, making it a 3-hour journey from Paris or a 1-hour journey from either Toulouse or Bordeaux. The town is fairly substantial with a population of 35,000 and has a wide array of shops, restaurants, bars, weekly markets and annual festivals. There is also a wonderful Art Museum and an Opera House, as well as several cathedrals, one of which has an intricately painted interior.
The surrounding countryside is known for its orchards and fruit growing, particularly its prunes, which you can find in all forms - stuffed, soaked in alcohol, or made into aperitifs.
The surrounding countryside is beautiful and dotted with many “Bastide” towns – fortified, medieval towns often built atop hillsides with a templated grid pattern (developed by the brother of one of the kings of France) with a main town square, surrounded by a covered gallery housing shops and restaurants.
The Retreat Experience
Each guest will be housed in a private room equipped with a desk. During your stay, you will enjoy the sweeping views of the French countryside, free time, intimate workshop mornings, and organized excursions to explore nearby sites and partake in the local wine and cuisine.
Chef James Lee Gordon
Our chef for the week is Chef James Lee Gordon who has over a decade of experience in organic, and Michelin-rated kitchens, building his reputation for excellence and innovation. Founder of The Chocolate Bear Kitchen in England, James is passionate about creating inclusive menus that cater to food allergies and intolerances, inspired by his firsthand experience of the challenges they pose for diners and chefs alike. With a focus on natural, healthy ingredients and bold flavors, James’ work highlights the rising relevance of allergy-conscious dining in today’s culinary world, while celebrating the rich possibilities of innovative dishes made with fresh, locally sourced ingredients.
Continental breakfast and family-style dinner will be served daily. Lunches will either be provided at the chateau or will be on your own during excursions. Coffee, tea, and snacks will be available throughout the day. We will do our best to accommodate dietary restrictions.
Sommelier Visit
Learn about and taste local wines with passionate sommelier, Stephan who will come to Chateau de Borie bearing some wonderful wines of all types from a variety of local areas such as Bordeaux and Cahors.
Local Market and Cooking Demo
Join us on an unforgettable culinary adventure with an esteemed chef, where we'll explore the vibrant Agen farmer’s market, handpicking fresh produce. Later, back at Chateau de Borie, we will be guided through an immersive cooking workshop, crafting our evening feast.
Winery Visit
Visit a local chateau winery, where you'll indulge in a delightful lunch at their renowned restaurant, followed by an immersive tour of the winery and a curated wine-tasting experience.
Fois Gras Museum
Nestled on Souleilles Farm, the Foie Gras Museum offers an immersive journey into the culinary legacy of Southwest France. Explore the fascinating origins of foie gras, uncovering why waterfowl naturally gorge themselves and how this region became the world's premier foie gras producer. Your educational visit concludes with a tantalizing tasting of artisanal foie gras and farm specialties, providing a delicious finale to your cultural exploration.
Property Tours
Get an insider's view of French real estate through curated property tours. Walk through local homes, understand regional architectural styles, and gain firsthand insights into buying, renovating, and living in Southwest France. These guided visits offer a practical, immersive look at potential future homes.
Brocante Treasure Hunt
Explore the charming world of French antique markets. Wander through stalls brimming with vintage curiosities, hidden gems, and timeless French furniture and artifcats. Discover unique pieces that tell stories of French history, culture, and craftsmanship—a potentially rich source of furnishings for your future French dream home.
Dinner in a local restaurant
Indulge in a delightful dinner at a nearby restaurant, specializing in French cuisine with a focus on farm-to-table ingredients and local specialties.
Travel
NOTE:
The Chateau de Borie is multi-leveled, with no bedrooms on the ground floor. Good physical mobility is required for this Sparkle adventure, as the Chateau has one or two sets of stairwells depending on the room you choose, and we will be on foot on the cobbled streets around France.
The physical ability to walk unassisted and stand for extended periods is necessary for this retreat.
Because of the proximity of the cliffs and the 7 springs on the property, mosquitos are an issue. Bug spray is highly recommended.
Arrivals: Saturday October 4th, 2025 before 4 pm
Retreat/workshops: Sunday, October 5th to Friday, October 10th
Departures: Saturday, October 11th before noon.
Participants are responsible for their own flights and travel to Agen. The closest international airports are Toulouse and Bordeaux, France. It is an hour's train ride to Agen from both cities. You can also fly to Paris and take a 3-hour TGV train from Montparnasse station in Paris to Agen (via Bordeaux), but this option can be more difficult and expensive due to limited train schedules. If you choose this route, be sure to book your train well ahead of time and buy tickets that you can change in case of delayed flights. Also, it is advised that you not attempt to take the train to Paris on the same day that you plan to fly out of Paris. Train delays are common.
It is recommended that you purchase your train tickets ahead of time, as trains do fill up. We recommend using www.thetrainline.com or https://www.sncf-connect.com/ to book your connections.
You are welcome to rent a car at the airport, though we will be providing transportation for the various excursions, so unless you want to get out on your own, it is unnecessary.
We offer pick-ups and drop-offs from the Agen train station to/from Chateau de Borie.
To arrive at the Chateau on Saturday, October 4th requires a flight departure from North America on Friday, October 3rd.
It is recommended to arrive in France a few days early if possible to acclimate to the time change.
More information about excursions and further details about the week will be added as they are planned. We look forward to having you join us for this very special week at Chateau de Borie!
Payment
A deposit of €1000 is required to hold your spot. The balance must be paid in full by July 1, 2025.
Included in the price:
Pick up/drop off at Agen train station
Welcome champagne
All meals and wine except for lunches during excursions
Transportation to/from all excursions
Entry fees for all excursions
Market visit and cooking class
Dinner at a restaurant near the Chateau de Borie
Not included:
Airfare, train fare
Meals outside the villa except for the restaurant dinner.
Refund Policy
The €1000 deposit is non-refundable after July 1, 2025.
All rooms are to be paid for in full by July 1, 2025.
If you need to cancel between July 1 and September 1st, 2025 we will offer your spot to people on the waiting list and refund 100% of your payment if we can fill your spot. If we cannot fill your spot, we will refund 50% of your balance payment (the deposit is non-refundable) or you can transfer your paid fees to another retreat offered within 12 months.
Cancelations after September 1st, 2025 are non-refundable.
Participant expenses incurred in preparation for the trip (e.g., non-refundable purchased airline tickets, or having to leave the retreat early) are not the responsibility of the retreat organizers.
It is highly recommended that you obtain medical/trip cancellation insurance for this reason.
